every industry is unique, when u enter one u should know what awits u,nothing like a free lunch,i am not related remotely to IT industry, my partner is,no problems, why blame the industry for yr faults,if u cant handle it, better live, for a couple of thousand divorce in bangalore u cant blame the whole IT industry u have to adjust, relate, make compromises, do tye same thing happen in other industries?,check out and fix it yself, start with self and then fix the system