I totally agree. Relationships are changing and if a man doesn't make the effort to meet his wife halfway through and share the burden then there is no point in continuing in a parenership called "marriage".
P.S. - Was this a discussion about divorce rate in IT Sector or a forum to bash working women ? Please find a solution - don't end up victimizing women in the IT sector. I am sure that in most of the cases it is the overworked/overstressed man who is causing the strain in the marriage.