Well dilip, to you i ll say that today's independent woman still bows the head in front of the temple ( women have always been more religious than men and still are). what they dont want to accept is the inequality in traditional family roles which was there.To depend on a husband all the time for each and every small thing, to suffer at the hands of in laws, to forget one's own desire completely and live like a slave! Yeah thats was today's woman is against. If you are against it then you and all the ones like you have a problem.You never had any rules and now when the woman does the same thing, you feel the pain!You hypocrite!