well....nothing is precious time......what the companies get from the employees is always much more than what they give to the employees....and a bit of looking the other way....makes no difference..... well about work......man....live in real world....if your spouse/sis/mum even grandma....if they are beautiful and wear tight body hugging dresses....people would of course look at it....and feel GOOD.....definitely....just because they are your grandma-sister....won't make others not look at them...accept it....you should also look at times.....it's biological attraction....god is the conspirator of this.....you can't stop it.....so better accept it as a part of lifestyle.... yeah....one thing you can do..you can tell your folks to wear loose big clothes .....like burqha.....then people won't be so inquisitive...but at the end of the day....if it is your sister/gf/young wife....they'll think...it's wasted life if I'm not appreciated among my peers in every way...this is the fact... western way of work comes with western life....not alone.....and eastern way of work comes with eastern lifestyle.....don't be a moron to try to separate things and be a paramhansa in the process