very well said Garima and Anjali! Rarely any one with thinking mind and self-introspection writes a comment here. I congratulate you both. most of the people here are writing the easiest and one sided story for them, as MIL, as Man...etc. I was given up after birth because i was a girl child. And my adoptee parents gave me freedom to grow. and i am their only child. My husband had problems with them and his love seemed so weak that he could not include them in his love while expecting me to love his entire extended family. Now I am on my own, back to college and studying!