I believe We got 2 Practice the Aspects of Forgiving for what Each One is. It is a Difficult World we stay. But it is the Same world R Parents have lived successfully. R Parents faced the Same Trauma, but they had to Be Financially Dependent on other person, whereas the Independence in Money by Either person has Led to this Fracas. A Diction saying "A Family That Prays together stays together" works even today. I think both the Partners have to do that together before going to Sleep and in every Work we do, if Possible. R Parents out of the Hard Lives to Bring Us UP has Given us the Best of Life. But They Have forgotten to teach us to Struggle in Life and appreciate the Difficult things in Life so as to Respect Marital Discords on a Daily Basis. That is where the Problem is.So We got to share this and Help Each Other in this Front.God Bless.