Surekha I dont agree with you. You are blaming career oriented girls for higher divorce rates.Women cant accept lesser paid husbands because they are mocked by the so called Confirmists(like you?) And women who have jobs do compromise careers for the sake of motherhood. Most of them do it. There are irresponsibles ones, I agree. But an irresponsible mother doesnt necessarily have to be one who is independent and career oriented, it can be a housewife too. I think Indian women's change is much more rapid than men and men dont seem to be catching up that quickly.It will take time to adjust to the new social changes. There is nothing wrong with career oriented women, we just have to be more understanding and accepting. Women should not flaunt their independence or be arrogant about it and men should also understand that women also are human beings who have potential to exceed at professional front also. Hope this makes my point clear to you.