Its not just a woman who has to be a good wife & mother & companion. I believe the relationship is from both sides. Husband too is equally responsible for good/bad things happening in thier life. Even he should give his full/Best to family,which doesn't mean just money or facilities, it includes affection, quality time also. I am in IT and my husband too but we still keep our personal& professional life separate. One has to decide upon the priorities in life.