Its only lack of understanding. The blame shoudnt be on the IT sector alone. As we see people prior to the marriage need to assess the each one s working conditions, their attitudes. But in places like bangalore its only the skin color and cool attitude that matters. If some one gives a serious thought to the person's character then i guess we can see a remarkable change. People in IT sector, without any doubts, earn a lot than ppl belonging to any other sector. This has created a liking in the market for marriage. If the bride or the bridegroom is in IT sector then its like a matter of prestige for the family and ppl can boast of the salaries. For the youth who would never change how much ever said shud care a lot for the cahracter and the possibilty of a long lasting before tying the nuptial knot. If one knows each other well and if one does not doubt the other then i tink most of the matters can be resolved easily.
A great solution would be to promise to each other that they would be out spoken and accept the the denouement how ever tough it is to accept. If this kind of realtionship exists then probably each one might start believing their spouse and act accordingly.
Ppl may think i am some one old.. but i m not.. i m a bachelor .. jus 21 yrs old and working in bangalore !! for the same IT sector... Frankly ppl shud give it a thought caring less for their ego's!! u all will be happy then!
