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NEEDS UNMET 2
by on Aug 19, 2007 01:15 PM

1.Domestic bliss-every mans basic emotional need
the male need for his wife to "take care of things%u201D is wide spread persistent and deep.
so deep is husbands need for domestic support that he often FANTASIZES about how she will greet him lovingly at the door, about well behaved children, well maintained home, tasty dinner, its aroma already wafting through the air, conversation at dinner involves nothing controversial, later the family goes for an evening stroll ,and he returns and pits children to bed and he and his wife go to bed to make love, all at a reasonable hour.

In families where the wife has to work full time, the husband still wants to be cared the way described above. he may be willing to try to change but deep basic needs in men and women don't go away and they don't stop working and cry out for satisfaction.


For many men domestic support is one of the most important emotional needs and they feel greatest pleasure when the need is met.
Therefore solving the domestic support dilemma can save many marriages.

steps
1.find out what he wants-remember its not popular for men to express a need for domestic support these days.
2.discover the types of domestic support that give him the most pleasure.
these are not demands: they are simply ways that you could increase his feeling of romantic love for you.
3.with that in mind ,don't try to do every thing-only the domestic behaviors he appreciates the most.
4. the remaining hire somebody to do /or if you

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