The base line is - MEN MAKE HOUSE,WOMEN MAKE IT A HOME.
I am not blaming women completely,but surely they are the ones who should give priority to home first and career next.Else she will trun into a home-breaker rathen than a HOME-MAKER.
I am stating this because I have interacted with many gals in IT and they are simply not wife-material. Everytime they are trying compete and be equal to men at the cost of their feminity.Finally,I am planning to settle for a home-maker for a happy & peaceful living.And yes,you get nice food at home too ! :-)