People do not post-pone living ... very one thinks that By such n such a time we have to accomlish such n such things and thn start living... Well...the happiness is not in reaching the ultimate destiny but it is in th journy as well... I know my uncle who worked like hell.. only mantra that he had was, he has to retire well and then start living a good life...but unfortunately, working like hell has taken a toll, the day he retired he was hospitalised couple of times and the money he has earned all went to hospital ...by that time childern are grown up and gone .... He is ALONE now.