Genetically a woman is stronger than a man and she is growing in stature academically , professionally & personally. Playing stupid is more difficult than acting intelligent. Yet the bottom line if she has to feel feminine she got to make a man feel he is a man. Financial independence .. is too surreal.. If the life has to have a bit of essence first build tolerance threshold , accept reality. Today a Man is under tremendous performance pressure from all quarters against prevailing environment ,Life style oriented problems and his Libido has taken a beating. Now it is for a woman to placate him with out making him feel the pressure to bring Life into Marriage. Else every thing material will be there in the house with out the essence of Life. The irony is now the onus is greater on a woman to make a Home , hold it in one piece and ensure their married life is full of Bliss. Women .. to understand is to accept. to understand is to pardon. Women rise to the occassion as you always have and dont feel subdued. Let the society not degenerate, let children get a better deal as in the past.