Dont join the armed forces if you want to be recognized, its a duty as a sepoy, he shud lay his life for the nation without expectations, if you want all the crazy limelight then better join other feilds.
The army job is a self respect job, all peoples bow their head whenever they come across.
Regarding the job the necesary rules will take care. One shud not feel that this sytatement is harsh but that is true.
If everyone thinks that so and so has to give resapect, what is the difference between them, there were so many freedom fighters whose children still wait for food, had they thaought this india wud not got freedom
My sincere parayers to the family of those couragous officers, my head stands high and feel proud to be a Indian.