In that case you should punish the people who killed 2000 muslims in gujarat. The people who got killed had nothing to do with godhra. Yes, you should not leave anybody who was involved in Godhra, but imagine killing a baby in a mothers woumb and then tossing the feutus in the air. What religion is it. Raping hindu women by muslim men and vice versa, what religion is that.
All terrorist are not muslims. Kashmir is a regional problem. Kashmiris have their own affair. If I have the same religion as a terrorist it is no reason i should leave my religion.
Did your grand father give up being a hindu when Nathuram Godse from RRS shot down Gandhi (the biggest act of terror on our land).