Lovely, you lived in the UK for two years and still spell like a 4 year old. I understand your frustration, but I'm one of those who doesn't do any of the above (and I'm sure there are others like me). Remember, change starts with you. Tell your friends and relatives to not honk, drive respectfully,etc. when they fail to do so. If you don't like the country, either do something about it or leave.