i am sorry but you r bein very partial, yeah the wounds r there and they need some serious addressin but u sendin the wrong message. Honestly we dont care if kashmiri punduts hate or or love us coz when u had the chance of showin the so called communal harmony u left ur kashmiri brethren to be slaughtered by ur hindu army. Also u have, blown out of the proportion the comment made music vendor, i get asked how long i intend to stay i dont moan about it its what i have choosed even though i havent fled it, by the way i have lost family members as wellbut wars always have casualties.u lot probably took the cheaper options of desertin ur homes and dont for a second blame kashmiris for it.i have spend the same time out of kashmir as u lot have and not with my family but by myself. u seem to be good at mixin politics with emotions, r u about to contest some elections lolll, instead of acceptin the foolishness of ur community u only justifyin what u did. What goes around comes around-- u suffered more outside kashmir then what could have hypothetically happened to u in kashmir But importantly uwont have lost the identity and the honour of kashmiriyat (although idont believ in nationalism)