you have excellently pointed out your views how obc's should take the government benefits to compete with the rest of the society, I am sure you will find hardly 10 - 15 % takers in the obc's,but by giving lame excuses many will branding you as a consipirator by OC's for foiling reservations for OBC's.
The situation is our polititions have created an insane population who dont think anything other than their immediate benefits with a less or no efforts.
The day is not far you will find reservations on Religion basis then what will be the share of merit in the higher learnings, even if think of it also gives a shivering down your spinal cords of so called forward castes, what will happen to their childrens ,these children will start hating their parents for their forward lineage then what sort of society the government will want to do, they will be undefined full of frusturations, and many more .