Dear friends, I thought about "Love Marriage a big adjustment" for long time. I have this queries to the author according to my understanding of LOVE. I believe when there is love, we tend to give everything we have to see to it that our beloved is happy and we tend to go out of way to see to it that our beloved is not hurt and is happy with us. And why do a person all this for his beloved???? obviously coz he loves his beloved and in doing so he is also happy. So where is question of adjustment for my understanding of adjustment is something that we are doing forcely without any personal interest which again gives a conclusion that there is no LOVE. So i believe that these two words (LOVE and ADJUSTMENT) cannot exist in one place. It should be only one word in one situation or place or moment.And coming to LOVE MARRIAGE. I think any marriage can have a rough road if there is no LOVE whether it is LOVE MARRIAGE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE.It is possible that coz of some conservative and orthodox mind set we might think that luv marr is a bbb adj.Once we make ourselves open minded and intergral then we realize that it is love which is imp and it is there then is no place for adjustment.
