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Love Marraige (too much or real adjustmenst)
by Aarif on Jun 10, 2006 07:49 PM

RE:love marriage

Yes it is absolutely true that love marraige is too much adjustment becoz after marraige only u come to terms with the negative part of your partner before that both of them are too cool and understanding but after marraige this all goes and small small things makes big issue just out of frustation coz both come to know each others merits and demerits atleast in arranged marraige everything takes time to come to light and both are able to manage it pretty cool coz they see good and bad both at the same time but in love marraige all is good before and all bads come after marraige, life becomes nothing more than a bag of compromizes if u really want to stay in the relation or else there is nothing easy then getting divorced or separated, its very essential that one of them has to compromize to such an extent that the other gains suprimacy and avoid useless discussions which are a hot bed for fights, it applies to both husband or wife, and now a days husbands are becoming more and more submissive than wifes and I am one of them, It doesnt mean that I am JORU KA GHULAM.I had taken this stand to save the relation, which has resulted only out of love not hatred.......

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