All these rules were laid down from ages, it is even said that the Lord himself made the rules. Families of lakhs of male devotees, who visit the temple every year, doesn't have a problem, then why should you people who doesn't know anything of Sabarimala comment on the rules set for male and female devotees. Also Jayamal is clearly lying, the door to the inner Sanctum is very small you can't go in without bending, and the IDOL itself is arounf 12 feet away from the door, even she doesn't know how she went that far and touched the idol!!
