There are certain traditions in every religion which are best followed.The 'critics' who question the tradition in Hinduism,do not have the guts to question any such traditions in Christianity or Islam.It has become a sort of 'perversion' with the pseudo-secularists to deliberately initiate controversies involving Hindu temples or Hindu religious leaders.This is also part of their cheap political stunt to be in the good books of the minorities. The tradition in Sabarimala from time immemorial,has been that only men and women in their non-reproductive age-group,can undertake the arduous trek to Sabarimala,after observing the 'vratham' for 41 days.When the tradition is followed with devotion,it is the 'faith' that has the desired effect on the devotee.No non-practising Hindu should interfere in this matter. Devotees who have observed the rituals and visited the Shrine have felt the 'power' of Lord Ayyappan.Women can visit other Ayyappan shrines for which there is no stipulations.Every devout Hindu follows certain customs when visiting temples.It is there in their blood.They do not have to be told. As for Jayamala's claim,it is only her fantasy,or perhaps she was paid by somebody.
