I dont agree with amrita at all. The only effecive way to deal with someone who's already intruding into our internal affairs is to tell them that we can play the game as well.
I am happy that India has atleast started to pay Pakistan back in the same coin. Further, we should also extend "moral & political support" to the Balochis, the Mohajirs, and all other possible rebel elements there. We can also set up camps on our side of the border to "educate & train" these elements.
Talks will get us nowhere with someone who hurts us in every possible way. Let us act to command respect, not seek love.