I didn't go through ur article in deep howeve ur question - what do I mean by Vande Mataram is If it is not PRAYING TYPE OF THING then it is ok. Because a mother land should not become GOD including own mother and father, u can ofcourse sacrifise ur life for your Country, nation, mother and father, it does not mean that they should become GOD. GOD is super natural power, the SHAKTI free from SHAPES,THE MASTER, THE CREATOR a saint, a person with values deserves utmost respect, but neither of a person like u and me becomes GOD. for GOD sake Pl. think seeriously about this, un biased, without prejudices, think neutrally, then reply me back equally publish this at ur site, both end communication. may GOD ( ALONE SUPER NATURAL POWER ) bless all, and give light to every body.
