Well, it is disheartenging to know to come to know that one's family member is detained in a foreign country, & that too on suspicion of being a terrorist. But not all muslims are terrorists. But those muslims who don't oppose (either verbally or in action) terrorism are indireclty supporting the jihadists. So they are in a way being a source of moral support for these so called islamic terrorists. If you don't want your community to be labelled as terrorists, openly condemn these jihadists (wahabism promoted by the Saudi King). They will get the message that the muslims of the world don't want jihad/terror. So unless you don't condemn these islamic terrorists, you would be taken as siding (being) with them. Like Geroge Bush says "You are with us or you are against us. There is no inbetween". So you have to be on the side of the terrorists or on the side of the innocent people. If you are on the side of the innocent people, you have to condemn the terrorist's actions. Frankly, tell me how many muslims condemn the islamic terrorist's actions? Recently I even read that the Indian muslims don't want to sing Vande Mataram. They are in turn motivating the terrorists & siding with them.