We indians are the most divided group on the face of earth.
The distrust is deep-rooted.
I have recently moved to bangalore in pursuit of my first job and in one situation, when I had to speak of my rights... I hear statements like where are you from.. learn kannada and then talk.. (I couldnot understand what followed next.. as it was all in kannada). what the hell... and both parties in this conversation happen to be hindus. in fact, during my house search, I was treated much better by a muslim landlord. but ofcourse I am not generalising that all muslims are good and all hindus are bad.
and matrimonial scene brings out the true picture of indian unity in diversity. When I contacted some shetty girl thru rediff, she asked me why I am interested in her when she is not of my caste(She probably inferred my caste from my name). OMFG.