you took the whole incident in the wrong spirit... i think that these kind of socities should not allowed, since they polorize the localities. see man...these things happen... i mean even hindus are not allowed in...say a jaini colony or gujus dont allow people from other castes.but you should be magnanamous and let myopic people be as they are... and one more thing...i think that mumbaikars are more modern and more forgiving than people from most cities...including delhi. lohitash sirsikar