Dear friend - It was really sad that you faced such discrimination. Think about your decision trail - you decided to buy a house in hindu locality because of your budget and all...
The expereince majority of hindus are that Muslim don't blend in the society very easily. Also, muslim separate their functions and keep the purposeful disconnect from non-muslims. The discrimination is fulled by this fact. So, blaming hindus alone won't work, I think the whole community together need to put the genuin effort, if at all they wish to unite.