Its that we all are such different in all respects that we are not to be expected to do things normally.
We have been divided by the Brits then came independance and the subsequent Govts. and politicians divided us even further. If only we understood this and came close without our being stiff in our beliefs and retuials like plaing of late night loudspeakers etc and holding cross cultural meetings will only brings us together.
We must understand that our politicians and our neighbouring countries want one and the same thing a weak India so they can easily do as they like.
Its time we understod their policies.
The role of a hardliner rasist hindu (Atul Kulkarni) in the film Rang de basanti goes a long way in showcasing as how these people are misled and the only way out is for us to bring them from darkness to light.