It is very common... belive or not you are not the only one... I am born in Guju caste but just because I am not PATEL or SHAH, I do not get any help from my community ..It is all sweet talks... In last 20 years in US, I have not met any Gujju especially Patel or Shah, who would genuinely and honestly give your the right information or do not misguide you..
