it is true that with the IT boom, people from other states are coming in to cities like bangalore, chennai and hyderabad. and, i am one of them. but it is good to remember that it is their city, where we are guests, and if they try to hold up their values (which might or might not be acceptable to everyone,) we should co-operate with them. afterall, if u expect some decent behaviour from the part of guests in ur home, it is not bad to expect such behaviour in ur city. ur city is ur home.