Well Pal what do I say. Its all in the mind. we need to grow. we need to free ourselves from such limiting thoughts. We need to grow as a culture and develop mature thoughts. Its lots of change which is required and I dont see this happening anywhere in near future beacuse the main issue is we dont want to grow. we just dont like growing coz we love to live like slaves. slaves to our rotten thoughts which our so called society breeds under the umbrella of cultural continuity. With this kind of society we intend to remain same even after 100 more years. No wonder its 2005 and its Chennai most of our India is on the same Page.