Considering the fact that Chennai atleast has a disco what transcends into these minds is these Facts . 1.Virginity is something that is surely ones own discretion.Internet ,satellite televisons,reality shows all show people of both sexes interacting.. we cant hold onto past virtues, culture.. The world is shrinking..we all are adopting something common and If our parents who are brought up with coconut oil and Jasmines please dont fretter away young ones as you know you wont make ur child go thru this scrutiny India awaken urself The young parents of Today are more liberal ,more educated and Yes has pooh poohed these age old virtues of Virginity and moral policing so at the end all grandpas and grandmas and 40 plus dads and mums ..u all are the last of a genetration. twenty years from now in cities i bet India would be one hot de facto cool destination The era of the flower children has come and gone now its the re awakening! om Shanti!