Lets us put our emotions aside and talk about this issue. What Kusboo said is her perogative, I dont have a say and you dont have a say in it. She is not telling (pls note there is a diffence between telling, asking and expressing) my sister or my daughter or any one, its her view, she is expressing. Its upto you to take that view, she is not forcing it on you, its her right to express her opinion.
Why do we have plane crashes inspite of having so many safety measures. Are u preaching not to fly to avoid crashes?. Even, well laid out plans have their flaws. When something is going wrong or about to go wrong take necessary measures is all she said. The same thing goes to society and humans. We live in a civilized world and I dont want my clan to take chappals and brooms to express their feelings (which are again politically manipulated). If you are so much concerned about society, teach them how to express anger (not this way). Society doesnt hold a marriage tight, the people involved should find how to keep it tight. Please understand this problem exists in our society and we have to address it rationally not emotionally. Thanks.