It is my humble opinion that a non-issue is being exaggerated; I do not know if Kushboo referred specifically to Tamil women in her statement.
I alos do not see Suhaasini to be totally wrong: She offered apology on behalf of Tamils and not ALL TAMILS. She is a tamil and she has some Tamils supporting her view point and her statement can be taken to be on behalf of those Tamils.
Above all, let me ask this: There is a serial KANAVARUKKAAKA in SUN TV. The story portrays a woman marrying another man when her boy friend from whom she got a child is alive and is willing to marry her, realizing his folly. This woman is shown to be marrying another man giving some flimsy reasons. Is this in line with Tamil PaNPaadu? The protestors of Kusboo remark have not seen this serial? What are they doing for thisZ? Ridiculous.