There are nearly 22 crore Muslims in India and all are as much citizens of this country as yourself and I are.There is no question of accepting or refusing to accept Muslims as part of Indian society.Improve your attitude first and learn to look at both Hindus and Muslims as citizens of India and not as members of a particular community.When riots broke out in Gujarat,in reprisal,we saw something like the Gujarat Muslim Defence Force coming into being.Despite the systematic ethnic cleansing of Hindu Kashmiri Pandits by Islamic fundamentals mostly from across the border,we haven't seen of anything like the Hindu Kashmir Defence Force take shape in retaliation of Pak-sponsored terrorism that has both Pakistanis and misguided Indian Muslims targeting Indians