Tell me whether any person can live loosing his self respect? Obvious answer is NO. So when the people to whom we hv given so much love are saying after their 30 yrs of stay that they are oursiders, how we can control our emotions. It's not marathi-hindi matter dear, it's a matter of self respect. U can see how jaya and others smiled after her irresponsible statement. So brother we need to sometime fight against our brothers to earn selfd respect. I hope u can understand this