Entertainment hai bhai. You can't expect the movie to show romance as well as serious career planning on part of the youth...these movies are not meant to dish out advice, this is simple pure entertainment for people who pay a good amount of money to have a few hours' of timepass! and yes, time is moving on, parents are changing but there will always be a generation gap. it was not necesaary for abbas tyrewala to portray it in his movie in the way u r used to seeing conflicts within family. u seem to have gotten used to Ekta Kapoors family soaps on TV! Time to watch out!