I completely agree with evrything you said meenakshi anand. I wonder if these people who claim that they are teasing one another for fun by using abusive language would have the same attitude when somebody calls them a moron. I do not understand why they think it is necessary to insult other people to get their message across. I can only assume that such people do not have anything constructive to say...and say things just because they want to have the last say and stop other people from giving their valauable opinions. I think the best thing for people like you and me to do is to move to more constructive forums/blogs. Let us be the better people that we are.