Rani, I appreciate your comments. We want to be cultured, but some people NEVER understand that and mistake courtesy for meak and say all sort of things. AND, they dont stop at that, but go on to poison the whole society. So unless we speak their language (which means no real sense for a sane person), our culture will not survive, or be sold to forieners for whom these people will polish shoes. This is one good reason india will never be itself, but rather in the hands of others as puppet.