i totally agree with you on the fact that one cannot help if someone harbors homosexual feelings in their heart. but what we are talking about is social acceptance. with complete social acceptance there would be no stopping for them in terms of what they decide to do with their lives. one won't be able to stop them from adopting babies, or exhibiting public display of affection ... or doing anything they wish to do. that is where the problem starts. we are both on the same page with this topic; we both think that it is wrong but the only difference in between us is that you think people should be more accepting of this and i think the reverse. one more thing. suppose we all become more accepting of them ... would there be any reason which would justify why they cannot get married. i mean wont it be kinda weird where everyone accepts their way of life but still they are not able to get married? and once they get married, they become no different from any other heterosexual couple. doesnt problems start there?