Mr Nayyar your type of senior journalist's thinking, ( with due respect and regards to your experience ) is dreamy, nehruvian- idealism-like , with emotional baggage (understandable), especially when its comes to pakistan or partition-days history. We had 3 wars within 60 years, everytime first attacked by pakistan. There is no stable democracy, so no consistent line of thinking, a heavy dominance of military rule and islamic fundamentalism. That leaves very little political space for people of pakistan in political space. Plus pakistani awam has costantly being fed on anti-indianism. So India has to be most rational and absolutely ruthless and keeping India interest at the top. Otherwise it will be like what CHINA did to Pt. NEHRU after HINDI-CHINI BHAI-BHAI.