Ask people to share on this forum what they fantasize about when they are making love. Ask them whether they know what their husband or wife is fantasizing. As long as you discuss this stuff in strictly academic and clinical terms, you are being prudish, and you are sending out the message that everybody has to be prudish. Why did you delete my earlier message about wife-sharing fantacies? Was it salacious or dirty? I think this is hypocrisy.
