do u think men dont manage anything? the constant pressure of society is managed by men. its a huge pressure to bring up a family and it is still a man's burden. taking care of children's education, looking after elderly parents, proteting family from all sorts of social stigma, runnig pillar to post in case of any crises..and do u think men are not insulted if someone sexually ill treats their sister, wife or friend? and u say "demanding" in-laws..one say u are also going to be mother-in-law..will u be demanding? if yes then u should not expect your in-laws to be nice. if no, then please dont take all in-laws to be "bad". do u have brother? if yes then do u demand anything from your "bhabhi"? remember..mother-in-law is also a woman and it is her day also. further she has also done all the things which u boast of ..today...a woman is the greatest enemy of another woman..and is is evident from ur post...disgracing ur in-laws who are not even reading this...