I really appreciate your suggestions and hereafter i will consider my career as just a part of life,broadening my horizons to my wife,children.But if you reach at the age of 40 ,you will have inner fear of settling in the life to feed your family and normally you will avoid risks of changing jobs unless you plan well ahead finacially for your dependents. Normally after 40 ,getting job is difficult nowadays as there is lot of competition from youngsters. Rediff should analyse the present scenario of career opportunities for the professionals like me if i wants to live without worry of meeting the deadlines of the present job and live like a new born baby. In this world only child and saints are two kinds of people having no worries.