balancing between career and relationship will depend upon whether both husband and wife are working or husband alone is office goer. If both the partners are office goers, it is rather difficult to balance it. In the case where both the partners are going for work, after the days toiling in the office, they come home tired and depressed and both of them will get irritated on small matters. Husband cannot blame his wife and wife also cannot blame her husband. Before we analyse their life we have to look at the life of a couple where husband alone is the bread winner. No two families life will be the same where both the partners go for work daily. It will differ from family to family and no rigid rules can be prescribed for balancing the relationship and the career. My assumption is that since both are office goers, they must be educated to a certain high level where they are mature enough to understand each other. As long as there exists good understanding between the couple, there is no problem which cannot be solved by mutual discussion. A policy of give and take will work splendidly well. After all the husband and wife must realise that both of them are toiling only to their mutual benefit and for a rich life of their children.
