Marriage gets successful by some unknown reasons (known by God) ...
It depends on your FATE and GOD's Decision
YES, people can put some effort to make it successful%u2026like
1. both should have interest with each other (otherwise it will be a compromise) 2. MARRIAGE is MERGING both have to agree on this concept/idea 3. LOVE & RESPECT must be there between each other. Only LOVE is not sufficient, only RESPECT makes love dry. 4. An honest approach towards marriage is the most intelligent approach 5. It requires lots of patience so be patient 6. Marriage is not to make wife (or husband) happy, but to inculcate some good habits in human life 7. BELIEVE that - Marriage teaches us to live for others, it makes a better serving quality 8. Interact but never react 9. Try to listen 10. Never insult each other (specially infront of any third person) 11. A man should never be financially dependent on wife%u2019s earning/wealth 12. Mental level is differs in man and woman. Generally women are emotional, men are realistic.. 13. Regarding sex - a man gets cheque book and a bank (i.e. wife) %u2013 try to encash your cheque when you feel like (with prior permission) 14. Both should provide room to each other to move freely with dignity. 15. Respect others but decide with mutual consent 16. Work hard and always try to satisfy yourself as whatever you have is by the grace of GOD
and many more...depending on situations, conditions, atmosphere....