harsh but true (at least so far as i know). if it has to work it'll work, if not, nobody can save it no matter how hard u try. actually if u "try" to save a marriage, u increase it's chance of being failed. a complete stranger can be a good partner and a very good friend can be a bad partner...it's it's just a matter of, u can say, chance (i dont like the word "destiny"). u dont get a partner with a guarantee card, u see...