Having said that, the decision in India is a combination of two -Individual & Family. With the raising change in social system, individual thought process, the formulas have changed and calculations have changed %u2013 may be less in family side but more in individualistic point of view. More over the thought process of new age youth is derived from practical lessons, consequences. This may be because of, decline of trust with respect to the old marriage framework, lack of acceptance level with the life and moving away from the disciplined life or defined life style- there may not be a single reason, if there must be a reason%u201D
And some crowd (unfortunately more than 50% in metro) tends to the wrong belief that marriage decision has nothing to do with Parents and their happiness. These are what reflected as %u2018secret marriages, run-away cases, extra marital affair & other big disputes. Despite the fact that, these things keep the parents in dark and hurt them immensely%u201D
So just to conclude (actually there can not be any conclusion as there is nothing like best-decision here) %u2026..%u201CAs long as it%u2019s completely convincing to the boy and girl, and OK to parents, better there is a GO%u201D
Marriages can succeed or fail %u2013 both arranged or love! And the truth prevails %u201Cmarriage is something you can not always live with it, at the same time you can not always live without it.%u201D
