buddy i dont agree with ur statement. Indian culture has always taught that husband and wife r to be like two souls bound in one body. the seven circles if i can say so dont end up in 15 minutes. its a ritual which actually gives u knowledge about living together. but today in life's fast pace every value and culture is lost. male or man kind that is have always felt superior about themselves. though thats not the case. its the other way round. women empower us. we actullay live by their strength but never reflect it. men tend to enjoy themselves and take their spouses for granted. they drink, smoke and do all that is not meant to be done. they talk about their wifes as if they r just not human. men care for their feelings and wants first. being human is about caring for others and being ur true self. so be it an aranged marrige or a love marrige or marrying ur best friend. all one needs to do is actually be good himself. and everything works out. thats my point of view about life with any female.